There could be another guy that’s got her attention. And if they’re just not willing to do it, it’s really not up to you to be clairvoyant or a psychologist or pull out your crystal ball to try to figure out what the hell is going on with her. You want the other person to make a mutual effort. Hit the ball over a net and see if they hit it back. And it’s really damaging right away, because the guys that don’t have any game are just blowing up the phone, and then they’re getting irritated and pissed off that she’s not responding. And that’s why she just kind of starts to ignore you. If you just start barraging a girl, you look like all the other thirsty dudes. You’re just one of the dudes that’s trying to get her attention.Īnd so you’ve got to keep that in mind. You know, especially a hot woman who’s got a thirst trap going on her Instagram, where she’s constantly getting a message from her Facebook or Instagram or some other social media. It’s like there’s always something going on.īut the thing to remember, if you’re dealing with a really hot younger woman, especially a woman in her 20s, early 30s, it’s like just imagine how much her phone is beeping and going off with other guys. I’ve got a dating app or two beeping at me occasionally. I’ve got Facebook messages beeping at me. It’s like I get texts, I get social media apps beeping at me. I’ve had to turn off all the notifications. And then the iPhone came out and it was, what, 2007, 2008? And then that, like, really changed things.Īnd so when you think about how communication has changed just in the last 10, 15 years, especially since the iPhone and the smartphone came out, it’s like what happens now? It’s like my frickin’ phone sounds like a video game. Remember back in the old days when you had to press the buttons? You know, each button represented three letters. And then you had those little flip phones, and then the texting came along. And then they went to the push button phones, and then pagers came along, and then those brick cell phones came along. I remember we had a friggin’ dial up rotary phone. I mean, hell, when I was a kid growing up, we had phones.
You never really gave her time and space to miss you and to think about you, to wonder, “Is he going to call or text me back?”īecause the thing you’ve got to keep in mind, like what’s changed over the last 10, 15 years, especially over the last 20 years.
So like the quote says, you obviously over pursued, started acting a little needy, calling too much, texting too much. When she texted me back with casual questions, (hi, how are you?). So, she was losing interest, she only wanted to hang out with other friends of hers during our dates, and she ghosted me for 1 month. So, we had some dates, (sex happened), but I admit I screwed up by being the only one to pursue her and made dates. I kissed her, and we were so in the moment that we forgot about our friends. My situation is that I met a girl in a bar.
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